Talked to the MD about my youngest yesterday.
She saw what I see and agreed that Grace does need a specialist to look at her.
I am glad she agreed. At least I don't have the response "She's just 2" or "She's just having an issue with the divorce and just give her time".
I am going to take it one step at a time. Step 2 is the phone interview about the process. I guess its a formality rather than a requirement since the MD could see what I and the teachers see.
It's a relief however a long journey that my small family is ready and willing to do for her.
Step 1 down, a few dozen to go.